Words of Wisdom .. xÞ

Hey hey .. Finally got the energy to blog about something I wanted to blog about few days back .. Was feeling superbly tired these days .. Haha .. Oh well, Manchester United lost in Rome but they still did great this season .. Glory Glory Man Utd .. xD

Okay back to the point, so I heard some words of wisdom from my colleagues, it seems pretty useful so I shall share it with you all .. Some may have heard of it or maybe something close to it, but just hope it will brighten up your day and your life later on .. =_)

Story 1
Long time ago there's a person name Confucius which people respected him a lot as they state that he has a lot of patience and a person with full of wisdom. So one day, a person name X which is a cocky guy wants to challenge Confucius's patience, so he went up and meet with Confucius and start calling him names, cursing with all the bad words and all .. Confucius was calm and was smiling at X .. X was so frustrated that he ask why Confucius was able to bare with the words that he had uttered to him .. Confucius told him that : If a person is giving you a gift, but you don't accept it, the gift belongs to who ??

The moral of the story is if you are saying something bad to a person, if the person ignores everything bad that you said to them, eventually those words are bounce back to you. So at times we are teasing and cursing someone else, if the person ignores it, all the teasing and cursing eventually refer to you .. So think twice next time before you curse or tease someone ..

Story 2

A father and his son when hiking in the mountains, while they were hiking the son fell down into a cliff .. He was panic so he started shouting, and he heard an echo .. He was still young and did not know where the sound came from .. He shouted where are you dad ?? and the echo responded where are you dad ?? He was scared that he shouted who are you !! & the echo came again .. This time the father heard his son, so he went down to the cliff and safe his son .. The father explained to his son that the sound is actually he's echo .. What the father did was actually he shouted I'm a champion and then there's an echo .. The son was amaze .. So the father told his son that what is said to people, one day it will come back to us ..

The moral of the story is that whatever things we do in live, somehow or rather it would reflect it back to us .. What you give, is what you get .. Most of the time if we do good to others, eventually we will be blessed back with good deeds .. This implies to the bad things that we do to others, it will come back to us either equal the amount or maybe even worse .. So life is pretty simple, we as humans tends to twist and turn things around and make life complicated .. Why people say their life sucks when they are not physically or mentally impaired .. So if life sucks for these people,those that are physically or mentally impaired are more suck than them ?? Remember that life is always fair, our mind is train to believe that the grass at the other side is always greener .. It's time to change this stupid perception, we should actually appreciate what we have for now .. Don't whine or fuck yourself because of some minor stupid fuck up reason, and saying that life is not fair .. Think about it ?? Do you still disagree that life is fair ??

Story 3

A teacher was teaching math in class .. She talk to John and ask John if she gave John an apple,an apple and an apple .. How many apples does John has .. John replied I have 4 apples .. The teacher thought that John was playing around and ask John the same question, but the answer is still 4 apples .. So the teacher thought John dislike apples so she change the question into this .. What if I gave you an orange, an orange and an orange, how many oranges do you have ?? John replied 3 .. This time the teacher was so surprised and ask why John can answer this question .. John explained to that teacher if she gave him an apple,an apple and an apple, he will have 4 apples because John has an apple is his bag ..

The moral of the story is that the teacher jumps into conclusion too fast stating that John dislike apples .. This implies to all of us .. We often jump into conclusions and make assumptions .. Assume is making an ASS out of U & ME .. Yeah, don't deny it .. We often think that we are right, and saying it out loud as thou we are damn right about what is going on and so on .. But have we ever find out the truth behind things that happen .. We often see things that appear in front of us, what about the reasons behind things that happen and we often make decision base on what we think is right .. At time we can be right but again we can be wrong as well .. So what I'm trying to emphasize here is that, is best not to jump into conclusions once we see something that gives a impression to us .. It is very unreasonable for us to judge someone by it's cover and seriously, we need to be aware that everything is a whole .. Not just things that we assume that we are correct .. I can't deny that I've assume and jump into conclusion at times .. At least I'm aware of the mistakes that I've done in the pass 18 years of my life .. Just hope we can really change these negative mindset of ourselves .. It always start from ourselves before we try to change others .. xD

Cheers .. I'm getting tired now, eyes are shutting soon .. Hmm .. Oh well .. Just hope I get my pay check !! Toodles !!

Something we must know .. =_)

This is a very meaningful e-mail that I receive from my team-leader at my workplace .. So I'm here to share with you all .. xD ..

A guy was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a rope tied to their legs. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from the ropes they were tied to but for some reasons, they did not. The guy turned to the trainer and asked why these beautiful, magnificent animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.

'Well' the trainer said, 'when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and at that age, it's enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.' The guy was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn't, they were stuck right where they were. The powerful and gigantic creature has limited its present abilities by the limitations of its past.

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life holding onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before ? How many of us refuse to attempt something new and challenging because of our so called MINDSET ??

Your attempt may fail, but never fail to make an attempt ...
&
CHOOSE not to accept the false boundaries and limitations created by the past ...

So yeah .. Indeed this is one of the things that always held people down .. People are often brought down by their own mindset, their narrow mindedness .. Once they fail, they never go for another try .. Well I'm damn sure that many of us had failed to do a lot of stuffs in our life, no one is so perfect that everything they do at the first attempt will achieve success unless you're born with supernatural powers .. Failure is always the part of success, it's like a stepping stone to success .. Failures indeed will bring down your morale, but with the strong will in you I can assure that it will boost your morale instead .. This goes on for me, but I don't really know for others .. =/

You see, I basically failed to do a lot of things, but I'm always trying my best to achieve what I always wanted, although they are limits and boundaries to achieve certain things .. But I'm sure that one fine day I am able to break through these limits and boundaries and achieve what I always wanted to .. So basically we are all failures, in the sense that we are once failures in doing certain stuff .. But then we're not failures for life, maybe this implies to certain people in life .. =/ .. Haha .. All I can say is that the things we want to do in life, somehow or rather we are able to do so .. It's just the time line and the will in us that enables to do them ..

Believing in yourself that matters .. xÞ

Sugar Sugar .. xÞ

Sugar, ah honey honey
You are my candy girl
And you've got me wanting you.
Honey, ah sugar sugar
You are my candy girl
And you've got me wanting you.
I just can't believe the loveliness of loving you
(I just can't believe it's true)
I just can't believe the one to love this feeling to.
(I just can't believe it's true)
Ah sugar, ah honey honey
You are my candy girl
And you've got me wanting you.
Ah honey, ah sugar sugar
You are my candy girl
And you've got me wanting you.
When I kissed you, girl, I knew how sweet a kiss could be
(I know how sweet a kiss can be)
Like the summer sunshine pour your sweetness over me
(Pour your sweetness over me)
Sugar, pour a little sugar on it honey,
Pour a little sugar on it baby
I'm gonna make your life so sweet, yeah yeah yeah
Pour a little sugar on it oh yeah
Pour a little sugar on it honey,
Pour a little sugar on it baby
I'm gonna make your life so sweet, yeah yeah yeah
Pour a little sugar on it honey,
Ah sugar, ah honey honey
You are my candy girl
And you've got me wanting you.
Oh honey, honey, sugar sugar ..
You are my candy girl ..

Another old school song, haha .. Classic !! Haha .. It's really nice .. Hmm .. I shall upload the video as well .. xD ..

Miss You Like Crazy .. =/

"Miss You Like Crazy"
I used to call you my girl
I used to call you my friend
I used to call you the love
The love that I never had
When I think of you
I don't know what to do
When will I see you again

I miss you like crazy
Even More than words can say
I miss you like crazy
Every minute of every day
Girl I'm so down when your love's not around
I miss you, miss you, miss you
I miss you like crazy

You are all that I want
You are all that I need
Can't you see how I feel
Can't you see that my pain's so real
When I think of you
I don't know what to do
When will I see you again

I miss you like crazy
Even More than words can say
I miss you like crazy
Every minute of every day
Girl I'm so down when your love's not around
I miss you, miss you, miss you
I miss you like crazy

Some old school song .. Haha .. Sang by The Moffats, I think you all know who are they .. =_) .. It's probably one of the best old school songs, I guess everyone of you sure miss someone out there .. Listen to this song and let your emotions out .. =_) ..

Absence make the heart grow fonder .. =_) .. Especially for those who are having long distance relationship .. At times I really respect them for being able to be so close to each other despite the distance between .. Haha .. =_) .. With the technology we have nowdays, which helps bring these couples feel like as if they are close to each other's heart .. =_) .. Well it's time for us to prove something wrong, cause many said that long distance relationship doesn't last long ..

Well as a friend I should wish these two couples (best friends of mine, and you all should know who you are xÞ) and other couples out there good luck and all the best in proving the whole world wrong .. As a lone ranger, would be happy to see friends around to be happy .. =_) .. Honestly, it's good to see the sweetness that happens between couples out there, especially friends around you .. Haha ..

I should say they are imba .. Lol .. Somehow they are like 10/10 of cause we have to leave aside their internal problems, which we'll never know .. Looking at the picture, it seems perfect for them, but I think internally they are perfect as well .. Oh well, I'm just assuming but I can assure my assumption is correct .. Haha .. =Þ ..

Okay signing off for now, this is a schedule post .. =_) .. Will update again when something comes into my mind .. Ciaoz people ..

p/s .. I hope they will read what I wrote .. xÞ

Life Explained .. =_)

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village.

A tourist complimented the local fishermen
on the quality of their fish and asked
how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long." they answered in unison.

"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"

The fishermen explained that their small catches were
sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.

"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children,
and take siestas with our wives.
In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends,
have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs.

The tourist interrupted,

"I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you!
You should start by fishing longer every day.
You can then sell the extra fish you catch.
With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring,
you can buy a second one and a third one
and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.
Instead of selling your fish to a middle man,
you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants
and maybe even open your own plant.

You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City ,
Los Angeles, or even New York City !

From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting,"
answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big,
you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire,
live in a tiny village near the coast,
sleep late, play with your children,
catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife
and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends.

And the moral of this story is:

........ Know where you're going in life...
you may already be there!!

Tagg !!!

Was tagged by Teni & then Victoria .. Hmm .. Tags just come in time when I'm running out of ideas .. Lol .. So here it goes .. =_)

1. Besides your lips, where is the favourite spot to be kissed ?
Hmm, never knew what's the feeling of being kissed ..

2. How did you feel when you woke up this morning ?
Tired

3.Who was the last person you took a photo with ?
Victoria

4.Would you consider yourself spoiled?
Nope

5.Will you ever donate blood?
I would love to, but my blood doesn't allow me to do so

6.Have you ever had a best friend who was of the opposite sex?
After so many years, I finally have one .. xÞ

7.Do you want someone to be dead ?
Nope

8.What does your last text message says?
Some message from my boss

9.What are you thinking right now?
What time heading to bed

10. Do you want someone to be with you now?
Definitely

11.What was the time you went to bed last night ?
11 p.m.

12. Where did you buy the tee you are wearing now?
I'm not wearing any tee now .. =Þ

13. Is someone on your mind right now ?
Yeah ..

14. Who was the last person who text you ?
My boss, Adrian

Ten lucky person to do this quiz ..

1. Ee Shan
2. Ming Wai
3. Suang Fu
4. Whitey
5. Pok
6. Qi Kit
7. Jia Li
8. Chee Kian
9. Justin
10. Chen Wei

15.Who is no.2 having relationship with?
His girlfriend ..

16. Is no.3 a male or female ?
Male

17. If no.7 and no.1 get together, would it be good ?
No !! Lol .. No.1 is taken .. =Þ

18. What is no.1 studying about ?
Engineering

19. When was the last time you chatted with them?
Who them ?? lol ..

20. Is no.4 single??
Yes !!

21. Say something about no.2
Multi-talented musician

22. What do you think about no.3 and no.6 being together ?
Sounds wrong !! .. lol ..

23. Describe no.9
My best friend .. Basically he is the package !! Brains, Looks & Loaded .. xÞ .. Good and
lucky for no.1 !!

24. What will you do if no.6 and no.7 fight ??
I would record it down ..

25. Do you like no.8?
Yeah, he's my 1st secondary school mate !! Haha ..

Mother's Day .. =_)

9th of May, the day where people celebrate Mother's Day .. For me, everyday is Mother's Day so long as you love your mum from the bottom of my heart .. Well for me if you were to buy something for your mum, think of it if you're using your pocket money which is given by your mum, to get your mum a gift .. Which means your mum is indirectly buying presents for herself .. xÞ ..

The point is if you love her a lot, being a good son/daughter everyday would meant a lot to her .. The best gift to her is always be obedient and a lot of things to do .. I guess you all should now by now .. =_) .. Well it's true, at time they can keep nag at you but look at the bright side, they love us or not they wouldn't bother telling us stuffs !! =_) ..

To tell you honestly, I've never been a good son for all these years .. I've gotta learn to appreciate her more, cause she's going to be 49 this year and she's going to grow older as years pass .. I should be happy cause I still have a mother around me, just felt sympathy towards those who have lost their mum or their mum left them for certain reasons .. =/ ..

I guess it's never too late to start appreciating her now, but of cause I've appreciated her all the while just that at times, all the things that I've said to her and things that I've done really makes me a useless son .. It's been 18 years, and I've not show my love to her, maybe there is but just minor ones, I guess my bad deeds are overwhelming against my good deeds .. I will make the mark of 2009's Mother's Day as in a mark to start loving her .. I will change for good, this I have to promise myself .. =/ ..

Well, I've never been good in showing my love towards people .. I can't blame anyone or even myself .. I just have to stick with my principle in life to show my love towards people I care of, especially my mum .. My mum will always be my priority for now .. I've finally get it, when I say friends are my priority first .. Thank you for reminding and advising me back then .. (you know who you are and I will always remember you)

I guess I should be sleeping .. 15 more days !! Woot .. Haha .. Good Night & Sweet Dreams .. Ciaoz !! ..

p/s .. Nice meeting and making friends with you (AK) ..

The Month of May .. Unique Month .. =Þ

I like May ... The month of May of cause .. Lol .. Not some girls name .. xÞ .. Cause it has only 20 working days which means I have 15 more working days till I have my very first pay check .. Yeah, this is my first job after 18 years .. Lol ..

Basically I like my job, it's the 2nd official day where I start picking up calls .. I just hope that the remaining 37 days would be the same as well .. *fingers cross* .. My colleagues are cool people & most of them are elder then me accept for 1 .. Out of 8, 5 smokes which means I'm 5x dying faster .. LOL !!! Nah, but I don't care cause as long as I'm having fun hanging out with them during lunch breaks and short breaks cause I'm okay with it .. xÞ .. And here comes the peer pressure part, my colleagues are trying to convince to smoke along .. They quoted 'since you're taking in 2nd hand smoke which makes you die faster, why not join us to smoke' .. So damn wtf .. Haha .. No one can really convince, provoke, bait or whatsoever to get me to do things that I don't like to do .. *winks* ..

Basically tomorrow is Mother's Day, thought of getting my mum a phone with my very own money .. After 18 years of shits and all, I guess this is the time where I show my appreciation and gratitude towards her .. =_) ..

Training .. =/

It's the third day of work and I'm still undergoing training .. Basically, telemarketing is not as easy as it seems, and it's not as boring as it seems .. That's what most of us say when we say what telemarketers do .. =_) .. I guess tomorrow would be the last day on training and I will be ready for the job .. Just hope everything goes well tomorrow .. =/ ..

There's an announcement that I would like to make and I really need all of you to help spread a word .. Okay .. Basically, my mum just launched a website where you can order flowers online, is much more convenient and efficient way to order flowers .. And you all know mother's day is coming, so you all know what to do .. xÞ ..

So just click here and I need your help to promote about it .. Will really appreciate it if you all do so .. =_) .. Thanks people .. =_) ..

I shall be heading to bed now .. Tired of traveling .. =/ .. Good Night & Sweet Dreams .. =_)

Training .. =_)

Hmm .. Woke up at 5.45 today to get ready to work .. Although I slept at 10 but I'm still very tired, I guess it's because of the 3 consecutive days of sleeping at 5 a.m. .. Lol .. I guess I need a few more days of rest to regain back the strength .. =/ .. Yeah, so reached KJ around 7.10 and hope on the bus which leads to my office .. =_) ..

So basically, had a full day training today from 8.15 till 5.45 .. Was kinda fun actually and enjoyed it with my colleagues .. Tomorrow will be the day that I official start work in which I will start servicing customers which is my job as a customer service telemarketer .. =Þ .. 19 more days and my 1st pay check will be out !! Anyone wants lunch or BR on me ?? Book me if you all want .. xÞ .. First come first serve basis .. =Þ ..

Actually I was supposed to seek help from you readers, but then something came up, I will post it up on the next post or something .. =/ .. I think I will head to bed soon, real soon .. I'm so tired .. =/ .. Don't want to fell alseep tomorrow .. Lol .. Till then next post .. Buh Bye .. xÞ

5 a.m.

It's been the second consecutive day that I slept at 5 a.m .. The first day was Friday morning, where I went yum cha and went to cc with Kevin, Theng, Kiang & Wai Sheng .. It's been awhile since we last met, so we meet up .. So I slept at 5 a.m and woke up at 11 a.m. and went cc again with Justin,Ho, CK & Thong Leong .. Crazy shit .. Haha ..

And again I slept 5 a.m. this morning again and woke up around 9.30 a.m .. Went to college to submit my application for Uni .. My time is so jumbled up now and I have one more day to rest as I've been hired as a telemarketer for Shell Malaysia .. Yeah, I got the job few days back and went for training and all .. I just hope it's going to be fun and all ..

So basically, I will be working from 4th of May to 30th of June .. Exactly 2 months, wouldn't be so active onlining as I was .. I need to rest more cause my working hours are kind long which is from 8.15-5.45 + travelling time and all .. I wouldn't be really enough for me to rest I could say .. I need to finish up some income tax stuff for my mum as well .. =/ .. Well I guess this is how I spend my 3 months holiday .. =_) ..

SMM is here again, we've missed it last year .. I doubt that we're going to join again this year.. Justin would be departing to Melborune , myself and Weng Tat would be working & the other mates are free .. It seems hard to train if we're really into competitive, we have moderate skills but lack of commitment I should say .. But we'll see how it goes .. I guess this is the year we shall be disband and leave the competitive scene .. Maybe a couple of casual games during the weekends .. The best part is forming back when most of us we'll be in Melbourne (at least 2 years down the road .. lol) ..

Disbanding the team would be the best option for us, cause we'll be doing our degree which is not an easy thing .. My counselor once told me before that we must spend at least 4 hours of studying a day in order to do well in exams and all .. So that makes us need to spend our time studying instead of dotaing .. I could finally say finally I got the chance to really stop playing dota for real .. But last year there's a short period of time that I nearly stopped playing dota but I came back again .. *winks* .. But again we need to discuss about it and let the leader decide it all .. =/ ..

I shall be having fun for the rest of the remaing hours till it's working day .. Stay tune for the next update .. Ciaoz