Something Interesting ..

Saw something interesting in Yen's blog .. So I thought of translating it to English

100 Things Guys Should Realize

1：能不抽烟最好不抽，它或许可以帮助你吸引一些女生，但不抽绝不会招来厌烦，表现男子气概的途径有很多，没必要拿健康做赌注。
　　
It's best for you guys not to smoke, even though it helps you to attract girls, if you don't smoke, it doesn't makes you being hate, cause it portrays the guy's spirit varies, they don't risk their health ..

　　2：给自己定目标，一年，两年，五年，也许你出生不如别人好，通过努力，往往可以改变70%的命运。破罐子破摔只能和懦弱做朋友。

Set yourself a target, one year, two years or 5 years .. Even though you don't live a good life compare to others, but by working hard, you can change 70% of your faith ..

　　3：找女朋友外表是第一关，但要了解她的品行之后再做打算也不迟。

If you are looking for a girlfriend, looks are the 1st stage, you need to understand and know more of her attitude and all only you decide whether to take her as your girlfriend or not ..
　　
　　4：不要在乎小钱，工作的人都后悔从前对自己的GF不够好。记住你们的重要日子，你们的谈话，女生要敏感得多，这样做，至少可以证明你对她的重视。
　　
Don't care about the change after paying bills, most of the working people often regret not giving their girlfriend the best treatment. Always remember the important dates, your conversations, girls are very sensitive, by doing these things, at least it proves that you value them

　　5：爱她，但别怕她，你们是恋人，也是朋友，她要的不是宠物，这样的感情，走不长远。
　
Love her, but don't be afraid of her, both of you are lovers, and also friends, what she wants is not pets, this type of feelings, wouldn't last long ..

　　6：她要是病了，带她去医院，她害怕时，找个人少的地方抱着她，给她勇气，帮她排队，挂号，放下你那点可悲的面子，周围人只会向她投来羡慕的眼光，不会对你说三道四。
　　
If she fall sick, bring her to the hospital, when she's afraid, find a place with less people and hug her, give her some courage, que up for her, brighten up your face to avoid misconception from others ..

　　7：别把两个人的生活绞在一起，空间才是爱情的长寿药。不要经常吃醋，谁都有异性朋友，该吃的时候才吃，并且让她知道。

Don't mix both of your time together, giving time and space to one another is the best solution for love .. Don't get jealous easily, everyone has their rights to make friends, get jealous at the right time but just to let her know ..
　　
　　8：善待她的朋友，即使她讨厌的人，你也没资格说坏话，你要做的，就是静静的听她倾诉。适当给她安慰。有时候，她们更需要依靠，即使你们都还是学生。
　　
Treat her friends well, even if the person she hates, you have no rights to talk bad about the person, what you should do is listen to her and console her .. At times they needed you to be there for them, and both of you are still young ..

　　9：不要问她过去，时机到了，她会毫无保留的告诉你。她要是想见从前那位，让她去，原因是你不让她去，她也会去。为何不表现得大度点，但要让她知道你相当的郁闷。

Don't ask her where she is heading, when the time comes, she will eventually acknowledge you .. If she wants to meet someone, just let her go, even if you don't let her go, she will still meet up with that person .. Why not showing that you have an open heart, but you need to let her know that you're melancholy
　　
　　10：珍惜身边人，不要见异思迁，大家都需要安定。即使对方比你GF漂亮10倍，还主动靠近你，给你暗号，请严肃的告诉她，你有女朋友！

Appreciate the people around you, stop being inconstant, everyone needs to be stable .. Even though a girl is 10 times hotter than your girlfriend just tell her off even though she seduces you and tell her that you have a girlfriend ..
　　
　　11：她开始管你的生活，你的钱 ，对你唠叨，繁发消息询问你的位置。别担心，她只是把自己交给了你，害怕失去你。

When she starts to control you, your money, kept on complaining, kept ask where were you. Don't worry she has already given herself to you, she's just afraid to loose you ..
　　
　　12：带她去你从前常去的地方，她内心会无比快乐，你失意时，她会在第一时间找到你。
　　
Bring her to the place you went before, her innermost feelings will be heavenly happy, when you're frustrated, she will be the 1st to find where you are ..

　　13：发生口角后，别关机，也别在街上和其他异性闲逛，那只能使矛盾激化。
　　
After an argument, don't off your hand phone, and don't simply go around strolling with the opposite sex, cause it will declare the opposite of a statement to be true ..

　　14：过生日，送她草莓蛋糕，不要太大，但要足够精致，把你对她的腻称放在蛋糕上。再买一个大的，让她和朋友一起过。

On her birthday, get her a strawberry cake, not too big, and make sure the cake is fine, make sure you put the name you usually call her on the cake .. Then buy a bigger cake for her and her friends to celebrate ..
　　
　　15：牵手时，即使你的手有多汗，也别放开。

While holding hands, no matter how dry is your hand, don't let go ..
　　
　　16：把她介绍给你最好的朋友，包括异性朋友。

Introduce her to your best friend, including the opposite sex friend ..
　　
　　17：别总是让她打电话来，她也需要被重视的感觉。

Don't let her call you all the time, she needs the feeling of being valued ..
　　
　　18：衣着尽量和她的品位搭调，即使你要提升品质，请带上她一起。

Try to match all the clothing she wears, it is best both of you shop together ..
　　
　　19：别偷看她的隐私，不要去猜测，在一起是缘分，离开也是缘分。

Never intrude her privacy, don't doubt her, being together is all about fate, separating is also fate ..
　　
　　20：如果失恋，不要轻信江湖上传言的借酒消愁，吐的滋味不好受，即使喝了，也别急着喝茶，茶不但不能解酒，反而还会伤肾。

If you're being miserable because of unhappiness in love, don't ever drink just to let things settle, it won't help cause the feelings of vomiting is never good, after drinking don't rush to get a cup of hot tea, hot tea can't blend with alcohol, instead it will damage your kidney

　　
　　21：不要整天想着如何重修旧好，除了爱情，前面还有许多问题需要你去解决。这是个现实的社会，感情不能当饭吃，贫穷夫妻百事哀。不要相信电影，那只是个供许多陌生人喧嚣情感的场所。
　　
Don't spend your time on how are you going to fix your relationship problems, other then relationships, there are many more problems that you need to solve .. This is very realistic, love is not as simple as you thought, poor couples will face lots of problems .. Don't trust movies or dramas, there are all just for shows ..

　　22：分手之后，可以伤心难过，但过渡期不能太长，因为这期间是绝佳的学习和工作时间。

After breaking up, you can be sad and emo, but not too long cause it is the best time for you to focus on studies or your work ..
　　
　　23：如果你实在奈不住寂寞，至少等上大半年，否则你不仅否定了她，也否定了你自己。

If you can't stand the loneliness, at least wait for half a year, otherwise you will deny her and yourself ..
　　
　　24：当她不再爱你的时候，无论你有多想她也别打电话告诉她，因为有些人会记住第一个，而有些人只会记住上一个。

When she don't like you anymore, no matter how badly you want to call her and tell her, don't call her cause some people will always remember the 1st love, but some people will only remember one ..
　　
　　25：好朋友里面，一定要培养出一个知己，不要以为你有多么八面玲珑，到处是朋友，最后真心对你的，只有一个，相信我。

Among your best friend, you must have good chemistry, don't think the world is big and you have a lot of friends, cause end up in the world, only one will really treat you as a best friend ..
　　
　　26：她的离开如若是一个重大，找间手艺不错的发型设计理个发，这样可以让你涣然一新。

If the beginning of her departure is giving you a lot of pressure, head to a saloon and have a hair cut, this helps you to make a change ..

　　27：不要去打扰她的生活，她只会觉得从前看错人，你也会鄙视自己。
　　
Don't intrude her life, she will thinks that she met a wrong person during the past, you will just look down at yourself ..

　　28：你们在街上相遇，请向她微笑，把微笑留给伤你最深的人。

If you met her in the streets, give her a smile, keep the smile for the person that hurt you the most ..

　　　　29：告诉周围人，你和她已经分手，避免他们给你打报告，哪天又看见谁谁谁了。

Tell the people around you that both of you are separated, just in case there are people telling you who she's hanging out with ..
　　
　　30：不要相信星座命理，那是哄小朋友的，命运在自己手中。难道你想等出栋房子或是车子？

Don't ever trust the zodiac readings, those are to cheat small kids, faith is in your hands ..
　　
　　31：你的朋友最好以你自己为中心发散，允许少数支点连接，千万不要把朋友圈变成密不透风的多边型，你要为自己留底牌。

Make sure your secrets are kept within yourself, don't ever spread to all your friends and never assume they can keep your secrets ..
　　
　　32：不喜欢的人少接触，但别在背后说坏话，说是非之人，必定是是非之人，谨记，祸从口出。
　　
Don't mix around with the person you don't like, but don't back stab them .. Cause one day you will just face the consequences

　　33：朋友圈里的你，平时都很忍让，请注意适当拿出你的主见。反之，不要太计较。
　　
Among your friends, just tolerate, remember to share out your ideas at the right time and don't' be so calculative ..

　　34：给老师或者领导留下好印象，他们不会在你沉沦时再踩你几脚，相反可能会拉你一把。在社交中，原则是跌停股，世俗是潜力股。

Give a good impression to your teachers or lecturers, they will help you out when you're down ..
　　
　　35：少玩游戏，这不是韩国，你打不出房子车子还有女人。进了大学，就进了社会，这是场马拉松。北京现在一个砖头抛上去，砸下来7，8个研究生受伤，现在的你是否该有点打算。

Play less games, this is not Korea, you can't be earning money by playing games .. After leaving university you will enter the society .. It's a competitive world out there ..
　　
　　36：拿出极限，尽力而为。你要想的是成功，而不是失败。所以面对困难首先就是拿出信心。除了你心爱女人的鼓励，这应该是最有用的东西。

Surpass the limits, try your best .. All you need to think is to be successful, not to be a failure .. Therefore, whenever you're facing problems, deal with them with confidence .. Other than a woman's encouragement, the best thing is still your confidence ..
　　
　　37：定时整理书桌书柜，良好的精神面貌可以让你事半功倍。

Constantly arrange the things on your study table, the good image somehow will boost your morale to study ..
　　
　　38：学好英语，那些说学英语没用的暂时可以不去管，他们要么年纪大了，要么就是自己早过了CET6准备托福了，在这里哗众取宠。你可以不拿证，但一定要学好。

Learn more English, cause it's very important in the world now ..
　　
　　39：不是足够热爱你的专业，并且学出来前途不够光明，趁早转业。现在更多人更看重“钱途”

Don't fall in love with your career, focus on the future ..
　　
　　40：知道自己要干什么，寝室的卧谈会的确可以帮你磨嘴皮子，夜深人静，问问自己，将来的打算，并朝着那个方向去实现。

You must know what you're doing, your bedroom is the place for you to talk things out, ask yourself what are your plans, and head on to achieve your plans ..
　　
　　41：偶尔翻翻时尚类的杂志，女朋友和女性朋友都可以从中受益。

If you're flipping through Ladies' magazines , your girlfriend or girl friends will benefit from you ..
　　
　　42：尽量少看A片，正常的男人即使是单身，也不会成天迷恋肉欲。而每次你SY后都会有大量锌元素流失，此元素与你大脑活动有密切联系。

Those who watch porn often, normally are those who are single, you won't achieve the love canal desire ..
　　
　　43：坚持做运动，俯卧撑可以锻炼你的胸肌和腹肌，请记住游泳圈是成功人事才有资格拥有的奢侈品。

Exercise more often and pump those muscles ..
　　
　　44：每天早上一杯水，预防胆结实。睡前一小时不要喝水，否则会过早出现眼袋。

Every morning drink a cup of water, it prevents to gall bladder to solidify .. One hour before you go to bed don't drink water, cause the next morning you will have eye bags ..
　　
　　45：宁愿要深色袜子也少买白色的，这样会让人觉得你不够成熟，学生朋友自便。

Remember to get dark colour socks, as this will portray a good image to others ..
　　
　　46：新同事或新朋友请你吃饭，不要觉得理所当然，请礼尚往来，否则你的名声会越来越臭。无论是大学还是公司，很多故事都是听来的。

If your new colleague or friend treats you for a meal, don't take for granted, treat back him/her for a meal .. Or not your fame will be worsen ..
　　
　　47：有男友的女人不要碰，即便你想one night stand 也要做好心理准备。后果同上，严重时会出现体肤之痛。

Don't ever get close with girls that have boyfriend, even though you want to have one night stand, please be ready for the consequences ..
　　
　　48：朋友的女人不要碰，无论是现在的还是曾经的，后果同上。要知道，男人经营自己就像经营一个公司，要树立品牌文化。想问为什么的朋友请先做个你是受害者的假设，再跟我发短消息讨论。
　　
Don't get too close with your friends' girlfriends, no matter is their current or their ex ..
　　49：博爱的女人不要碰，往往这种女人连自己要什么都不知道，我想没人愿意和若干成年男性分享自己的爱。天作孽，犹可活，自作孽，不可活。

Don't mix with girls that are desperate for love, this kind of girls don't know what they want ..

　　
　　50：没主见，不上进，懒惰的女人不要碰。就算你有钱，你有的是钱，最终你也会厌烦其中。何况不见得她们个个都是花瓶，何况你还有审美疲劳。

No opinion, do not progress, don't mix around with lazy girls .. Even though you have money, what you have is money, you will get bored of it .. You just have to appreciate the beauty of girls ..

　　51：不以物喜，不以己悲，我知道这很难，但要成功，这是必修课。

It's not pleased by external gains, it is not saddened by personal losses , but if you want to succeed, this is something you must do ..

　　52：空闲时间不要全拿去泡BAR，读点文学作品，学习一些经营流程，管理规范，国际时事，法律常识。这能保证你在任何聚会都有谈资。
　　
When you're free don't spend your time in the bar, do something more beneficial ..

　　53：每年回母校看看那些为你付出过的老师，走上社会你才了解她们才是无私的，比起那点学费，她们简直太伟大了。学会感恩。
　　
Make an effort to visit your high school teachers, they are the ones that taught us .. Learn how to repay them..

　　54：回家帮父母做点简单家务，陪他们买菜，做饭，逛街，冬天送他们一人一件羽绒服，他们并不奢望什么，但他们需要得到你的承认，中国的父母是最苦的，孩子是最幸福的。（离婚除外)

Help your parents to do some house chores ..
　　
　 　55：大家都年轻，没什么钱，不用太在意谁谁又穿AD ，NIKE ，或者其他。而GF对于PRADA，蓝寇，CD，LV，的热恋，你也不必放在心上，女人天生和美挂上了勾，她们只是宁愿相信你能够为她们买一样昂贵的礼 物，以满足她们的虚荣心，然后在同伴面前炫耀一番。实则她们也是热爱生活的，而当你有能力完成时，也会觉得把她包装得漂漂亮亮的很是欣慰。

All of us are still young, we can't earn big tons of money yet, we can't really afford branded goods .. Girls like branded goods .. You don't need to really get for them cause somehow they will thank you with gratitude after you get something for them ..
　　
　　56：告诉她，你喜欢的内衣。或者在UNDERWEAR店要打佯时陪她去买。

Tell her your favourite underwear ..
　　
　　57：欺负她时，请带上套子，如不习惯，请自行解决，直到无法忍受为止，或者泼自己一身冷水。流产很痛苦，我只是听说。

Please use condom when you're having sex .. Although it's uncomfortable ..
　　
　　58：有正义感，但请更理智，你父母不希望养育二十多年的儿子化为泡影。但当她遇到流氓时，请你勇敢的挡在她前面。大声说话可以让你的勇气迅速提升。（这是我答辩时认识到的）
　
　　59：最好不要在她面前玩天真，多数MM都不喜欢，除非她要求。

Don't act funny in front of your girlfriend unless they request ..
　　
　　60：接吻前先嚼块口香糖，接吻时请闭上眼睛，睁开时，告诉你有多爱她。

Before you kiss, take some gum, close your eyes when you're kissing, open your eyes and tell her how much you love her ..
　　
　　61：尊重每一个人，包括为你擦鞋的，卖报的，环卫工人...等等。

Respect every single person ..
　　
　　62：接到陌生电话请先说，“你好，找哪位”

Be polite to others ..
　　
　　63：想发脾气时，尽量忍，忍不住就去厕所蹲半个小时，或是找个海拔较高的地方站半个小时。
　　
Don't simply let go your anger ..

　　64：如果GF要跟你吵，尽量克制，不能避免时，跟她吵，吵架是最好的交流方式。你们互相可以得到心里渴望已久的答案。但别带脏字，别把对方的亲戚带出来，最后尽量妥协，有些事，只能暂时妥协。不要把问题留过夜。

Arguing with your girlfriend is something good cause at least you know what are the problems you're facing ..
　　
　　65：出差回来给她一个惊喜，并带上礼物。（想在这条上跟我开玩笑的朋友，请私下跟我开）
　　
When you're outstation, give her a surprise when you're back, get her a souvenir ..

　　66：在她兜里放些零钱，在她不常用的兜里放张一百。

Secretly give her some cash ..
　　
　　67：尊老爱幼，帮助别人后，你会感到无比轻松快乐。

Respect everyone and help out everyone, you will be glad after all ..
　　
　　68：去市场买东西，杀价先杀四分之三，现在杀一半行不通了。

Be smart in negotiating with sellers ..
　　
　　69：如果可以，给你的对手留条生路，钱是赚不完的。这个世界上，没有天生的敌人。
　　
Show mercy to your opponents, you can't be rich forever ..

　　70：饮水思源，永远做一个有思想的人，即使你不会有大成就，钱也会足够花。

Always remember the person that gave you happiness, forever be a thoughtful person ..
　　
　　71：为她学一首歌，如果可能，结婚时当着大家的面唱给她听。

Learn to sing a song for her, if possible, sing out loud to her on your wedding day ..
　　
　　72：要做一件事，成功之前，没必要告诉其他人，成功之后，和他们分享快乐。

While you're doing something, be sure to succeed before telling others, once it's a success only you share it with others ..
　　
　　73：每年去寺庙为家人点几盏油灯，告诉自己的良心，你不在的时候，同样是爱他们的。
　　
Visit the temple once a year and pray for the people around you ..

　　74：学会察言观色，不要意气用事，否则会有许多不必要的麻烦。

Learn to watch people's mood, don't be swayed by personal feelings, or not you'll find unwanted troubles ..
　　
　　75：享受孤独，地球不会因为只有你一个人而停止转动，也许她会很晚才出现，在此之前，你要学会正确利用时间，并且让自己发光发亮。

Enjoy the loneliness, the world will not stop rotating because of you, maybe the right one out there will come to you a bit late, therefore, you must know how to appreciate the time you have and let yourself shine ..

　　
　　76：从前的她，深夜给你打电话，如果你还爱她，接电话。如果你不爱她，关机。（没听见不在讨论范围之内）

If your ex calls you in the middle of the night, if you still love her, answer her call .. If not off your phone ..
　　
　　77：夜里的约会最好不要选择偏僻的地方，有些突发事件，会让你痛不欲生。如果你还爱她的话。

Don't date her out to remote areas, if anything bad happens, it will be the worst wound you can have ..
　　
　　78：公司的东西不要带回家，即使有小便宜，也别参与，在你成为领导前，也别指责，这是你管不到的。

Don't take for guaranteed and bring things back from the office, before you're elected as the leader don't order people around ..
　　
　　79：开发你的另外一个情感宣泄功能，倾听。

Develop your other emotions to divulge the function .. Listen to your heart ..
　　
　　80：朋友之间不要合作做生意，或者办公司。麻烦会接踵而来。你要减轻负担，减小风险，可以，找陌生人。

Don't be business partners with your friends .. Cause it will be very troublesome .. If you want to lessen your burden, lessen your risk, find a stranger ..

　　81：今日事，今日毕，不要日复一日，年复一年。不然到你60岁，你还告诉孙子，爷爷明年一定要毕业！

Deal with your matters fast .. Don't drag it too long .. Don't regret when you're too old ..
　　
　　82：感谢曾经爱过你的人，她祝福你的短信，一定要回。

Be thankful to those that love you before, if she sends you a message remember to reply ..
　　
　　83：朋友之间发生争执，不要次次都是忍让，每个人都有坚持自己权利，让他们知道你的想法，你所坚持的。没关系，不出两天，你们又是好朋友。

When you're arguing over something, don't be too tolerate, every one fight for their stand, tell them what you think and be firm with what you say .. After the fight, you'll still be friends ..
　　
　　84：说该说的，不说不该说的。对朋友，也应当有所保留。对她，不要把她和从前那个相提并论，谁都受不了。

Say the things that are necessary .. Be truthful to your friends and have the retention .. Don't ever bring out your girlfriend's ex and talk about it ..
　　
　　85：头发，指甲，胡子，打理好。社会是个排斥性的接受体，这个星球所需要的艺术家极其有限，请不要冒这个险，就算你留长头发比较好看，也要尽量给人干净的感觉。

Please keep yourself clean at all times ..
　　
　　86：牌局可有可无，那不是年轻人该干的，除非工作需要，否则不要培养这种兴趣。当你看见GF坐在赌博机面前聚精会神的呐喊着某张牌时，你是什么感觉？

Don't gamble too much
　　
　　87：每学期给自己写总结，上课认真学习，所谓的好好学习，天天向上，学好了，就是最管用的绝招。机会常常伪装成麻烦，从你身边路过，也只会留给做好准备的人。上班的朋友同理。

Don't neglect your studies .. Focus on your studies ..
　　
　　88：不要整天把国家大事摆在嘴上，去改变你能改变的，接受你无法改变的。

Don't keep discussing about politics ..
　　
　　89：选一个生日陪你母亲过，那也是她的受难日。不要年年都和同样一群人过。到头来，全心为你的，只有她。

Spend some time celebrating your mum's birthday .. Don't just spend your time with your girlfriend ..
　　
　　90：有了手机，尽量少上网，就算你仅仅是看新闻，读文章，大把时间也会不经意从你身边流失。
　　
　　91：不要以为你是个男人，就不需要保养。至少饮食方面不能太随便，多吃番茄，海产品，韭菜，香蕉，都是对男性健康有益处的食物。你要是看不到价值，我可以告诉你。至少你能把看病节约下来的钱给她多买几盒DIOR。

Be healthy at all times, eat the right amount of food and keep fit ..
　　
　　92：善待小动物，你以后也有子子孙孙，同样是生命，培养一下自己的爱心吧。这并不表示你懦弱。

Learn to love pets, it shows that you have the love for kids as well .. It doesn't portrays that you're a weakling ..
　　
　　93：如果考公务员，要有十足的心理准备。早点开始托关系吧，还不见得一定就有收效。
　　
　　94：力求上进的人，不要总想着靠谁谁，人都是自私的，自己才是最靠得住的人。

Don't be do dependent on others, everyone is selfish, you're the only person that you can depend on ..
　　
　　95：如果你们相处几年下来，她开始冷落你，对你不闻不问，请别怪她，让她离开。给不了她幸福，给她自由。

After years of being together, she starts to desolate you, wouldn't ask much about you, don't blame her, just let her go, you can't provide the happiness, just give her the freedom ..
　　
　　96：如果你想和她说分手，请在考试之后，人都是脆弱的。

If you want to break up, break up after the exams, cause everyone is weak ..
　　
　　97：她给你买礼物，你可以高兴，但不要太高兴。人生就是场经营，有人经营感情，有人经营利益，有人经营幸福，而有人经营阴谋。

The gifts that your girlfriend bought, you can be happy but don't go overboard .. The life is the field management, some people mange the sentiment, some people manage happiness, but some people manage the plot ..
　　
　　98：面对失败，不要太计较，天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿起体肤....但要学会自责，找到原因，且改掉坏习惯。二十岁没钱，那很正常，三十岁没钱，那是宿命。

While you're facing a failure, don't be too calculative .. Be strong and learn from mistakes .. You need to be humble .. and find ways to be successful ..
　　
　　99：学会微笑，以后在很多场合都用得上它。如何让微笑好看，首先你得拥有健康的牙齿。如何保证牙齿健康，一，早晚，饭后刷牙；二，每年去探望一次牙科医生；三，少管闲事。
　　
Learn to smile .. Your smile can worth millions ..

　　100：凡事要坚持
Be strong and firm in everything you do ..