Busy .. =D

Have not been updating my blog lately as I have nothing to do and have nothing in my mind .. Haha .. Sorry people .. >< ..

Starting this week I will be busy studying for my quiz and doing my assignments .. I have an interview coming up around this week .. So it would be another week without updates .. Sorry again .. =) .. Well basically I will be free around middle March as everything settles down .. But then again I will be busy as my finals is closing by .. Cause you all know that time really flies .. Well I should see what I can do for later on ..

I planned to plan a class trip for my college mates during our semester break .. I just hope that this really goes well, time is crucial here as I know that if we fail to plan, we plan to fail and something came out during the last semester's break, so I seriously need to plan for this trip .. I really want this trip to be successful as most of us we'll be separating to pursue our degree .. Therefore it will be our last class trip for our one year's anniversary for every single classmates .. Of cause we'll still meet up and so on but at least we spend our time hanging out together, have fun for a good long time .. We'll never know what's going to happen next, so for now try to contact each other as much as possible ..

So, I will start the planning during mid March I guess .. Haha .. Okay .. That's all for now, gotta finish up my assignments and start studying for quiz/test .. I remember telling you all I don't study at home. Hehe .. In fact I don't really study but I just read it whenever I feel like .. Good Night n Sweet Dreams .. =) ..

Ennegram

Enneagram Type 2 - The Helper

Helpers who need to be needed

Enneagram type 2 - The HelperPeople of this personality type essentially feel that they are worthy insofar as they are helpful to others. Love is their highest ideal. Selflessness is their duty. Giving to others is their reason for being. Involved, socially aware, usually extroverted, Twos are the type of people who remember everyone's birthday and who go the extra mile to help out a co-worker, spouse or friend in need.

Twos are warm, emotional people who care a great deal about their personal relationships, devote an enormous amount of energy to them, and who expect to be appreciated for their efforts. They are practical people who thrive in the helping professions and who know how to make a home comfortable and inviting. Helping others makes Twos feel good about themselves; being needed makes them feel important; being selfless, makes Twos feel virtuous. Much of a Two's self-image revolves around these issues, and any threat to that self-image is scarcely tolerated. Twos are thoroughly convinced of their selflessness, and it is true that they are frequently genuinely helpful and concerned about others. It is equally true, however, that Twos require appreciation; they need to be needed. Their love is not entirely without ulterior motive.

Twos often develop a sense of entitlement when it comes to the people closest to them. Because they have extended themselves for others, they begin to feel that gratitude is owed to them. They can become intrusive and demanding if their often unacknowledged emotional needs go unmet. They can be bossy and manipulative, feeling entirely justified in being so, because they "have earned the right" and their intentions are good. The darkest side of the type Two fixation appears when the Two begins to feel that they will never receive the love they deserve for all of their efforts. Under such circumstances, they can become hysterical, irrational and even abusive.

Because Twos are generally helping others meet their needs, they can forget to take care of their own. This can lead to physical burnout, emotional exhaustion and emotional volatility. Twos need to learn that they can only be of true service to others if they are healthy, balanced and centered in themselves.

Twos can mistype themselves if they are not in an obvious helper role in their professional lives; they might not recognize the extent of their involvement in assisting others. This is especially true for male Twos, who have not received the same social rewards for helping as female Twos receive. Male Twos frequently mistype as Ones or Threes, the wings of type Two. Females, of all types, are bound to recognize some of the dynamics of type Two in their personalities, as such qualities have been socially reinforced. Female Nines, for instance, are especially prone to mistyping as Twos, particularly if they are the mothers of small children. But Nines are self-effacing and humble; Twos are proud and have a strong sense of their own worth.

It is very accurate .. So basically this is what I am .. = ) .. Go give it a try .. http://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test.php

Book of Love .. =)

Heard this nice song just now .. Seriously nice song and it suit's the mode for Valentine's Day .. Happy Valentine's Day to all .. =) .. Been listening to it for a few times already .. Sweet .. =) .. Have fun listening .. Good Night .. =) ..

The book of love is long and boring
No one can lift the damn thing
It's full of charts and facts and figures and instructions for dancing
But I
I love it when you read to me
And you
You can read me anything
The book of love has music in it
In fact that's where music comes from
Some of it is just transcendental
Some of it is just really dumb
But I
I love it when you sing to me
And you
You can sing me anything
The book of love is long and boring
And written very long ago
It's full of flowers and heart-shaped boxes
And things we're all too young to know
But I
I love it when you give me things
And you
You ought to give me wedding rings
And I
I love it when you give me things
And you
You ought to give me wedding rings
And I
I love it when you give me things
And you
You ought to give me wedding rings
You ought to give me wedding rings

心太软 - Too Soft Hearted

你总是心太软心太软
ni zhong shi xing tai yuan xing tai yuan
You are too soft hearted, too soft hearted

独自一个人流泪到天亮
du zhi yi ge ren liu lei dao tian liang
Crying by yourself till day break

你无怨无悔的爱着那个人
ni wu yuan wu hui de ai zhe na ge ren
Without complaint or regret you love that person

我知道你根本没那么坚强
wo zhi dao ni gen ban mei na me jian qiang
I know you're not that strong

你总是心太软心太软
ni zhong shi xin tai yuan xin tai yuan
You are just too soft hearted, too soft hearted

把所有问题都自己扛
ba suo you wen ti dao zi ji gang
You handle all of your problems

相爱总是简单相处太难
xiang ai zhong shi jian dan xiang chu tai nan
Falling in love is easy but getting along is too difficult

不是你的就别再勉强
bu shi ni de jiu bie zai mian qiang
If it is not yours then don't insist

夜深了你还不想睡
ye xing le ni hai bu xiang sui
It's very late, you still don't want to sleep

你还在想着他吗
ni hai zai xiang zhe ta ma
Are you still thinking about him?

你这样痴情到底累不累
ni zhe yang chi qing dao di lei bu lei
You are so lovelorn, are you not tired?

明知他不会回来安慰
ming zhi ta bu hui lai an wei
You know very well he would not return to comfort you

只不过想好好爱一个人
zhi bu guo xiang hao hao ai yi ge ren
But you only want to love a person well

可惜他无法给你满分
ke xi ta wu fa gei ni man fen
Unfortunately he could not give you full marks

多余的牺牲他不懂心疼
duo yu de xi sheng ta bu dong xin teng
Unnecessary sacrifices he would not understand the pain

你应该不会只想做个好人
ni ying gai bu hui zhi xiang zuo ge hao ren
You should not be only thinking about being a good person

喔,算了吧
aie, suan le ba
Aie, forget it

就这样忘了吧该放就放
na zhe yang wang le ba gai fang jiu fang
Just forget about it, what should be let go should be let go

再想也没有用
zai xiang ye mei you yong
Thinking more is useless

傻傻等待他也不会回来
sha sha deng dai ta ye bu hui hui lai
Foolishly waiting for him, he would still not return

你总该为自己想想未来
ni zhong gai wei zhi zi xiang xiang wei lai
You should think about your own future.

Nice song .. =) .. Just feel like sharing it with you all .. =) ..

Valentines .. =) ..

Valentines is around the corner .. Anyone out there that would want to order flowers, teddy bears or chocolates ?? Would you like to take a look at the sample ?? Click here .. It's only a few collections but then I can assure all of you that it will be really nice and your loved ones sure will love it .. =) ..

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Recap for CNY Holiday ..

Sorry for the lack of updates .. =) .. Was busy with CNY and all .. Haha .. So I decided to post everything together .. =) .. Here goes ..

25/1/09
Had reunion lunch with my family .. For like 5 years since we last had reunion lunch with my bro .. After lunch head back to home town for reunion dinner .. Once again, good food and all .. =) .. Nice ..

26/1/09
Well this is the day where everyone received their ang pows .. Haha .. So basically stayed at home whole day cause it's said that the day it self it's not a good day for visiting according to some feng shui master, so end up rotting at home .. haha .. So basically what I did is eat sleep gamble .. rofl ..

27/1/09
Went to Gemas, to pick my 4th aunt from Singapore in the morning .. Then went around visiting relatives and stuff .. Again eat sleep gamble .. (ESG) .. Rofl ..

28/1/09
Came back to home .. yeah finally .. Home sweet home .. Didn't do much at home cause nothing much to do .. =) .. Lol ..

29/1/09
Basically stone at home the whole day .. Hhahaha..

30/1/09
This is the great day thou .. Haha .. Okay .. Went for badmintion early in the morning, was like a noob feeder while playing badminton .. Noob like **** .. Lol .. So after badminton head home and bath .. After that went to Yap's house for visiting then head to Tbun for a few rounds of dota .. Later on went for reunion dinner with school mates .. Nice !!! Food was awesome .. And soon it's gambling time .. Basically gambled through the whole night till Saturday morning .. Crazy shit .. =) ..

31/1/09
Went back to hometown again .. I slept like a dead person throughout the day .. Had dinner somewhere around my hometown .. The food was okay compared the one that I had on 30th .. Tonight is the best cause more relatives come to gamble .. Haha ..

Yeah .. so basically this is what I did .. Till then .. =) ..