Mummy to Mum to a Mother

MOTHERS

Real Mothers don't eat quiche;
they don't have time to make it.

Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
are probably in the sandbox.

Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
filthy ovens and happy kids.

Real Mothers know that dried play dough
doesn't come out of carpets.

Real Mothers don't want to know what
the vacuum just sucked up.

Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?'
and get their answer when a little
voice says, 'Because I love you best..'

Real Mothers know that a child's growth
is not measured by height or years or grade...
It is marked by the progression of Mummy to Mum to Mother...

The Images of Mother

4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mummy can do anything!

8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mum knows a lot! A whole lot!

12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.

14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.

16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.

18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!

25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit about it!

35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mum's opinion.

45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mum would have thought about it?

65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mum

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart,
the place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she
shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!

He's just not into you .. =/

Went and watch He's just not that into you with Whitey, Joe Keen, CK n Justin last Friday .. Yeah basically it's a really nice movie .. It show's how jerk a guy can be .. Haha .. It also shows that why people choose to beat around the bush, instead of telling out the truth .. Yeah it's true, sometimes the truth hurts, but isn't it better if we know the truth earlier, rather than hiding ourselves in the shell forever .. Even if it hurts for once, it's still better than you're hurt throughout your life .. I don't know for me I prefer people to be honest and straight forward to me, no matter how much it hurts, how much pain is it in the ass .. =_) ..

What I would like to emphasize is sometimes it's really hard to know whether they're really into you .. They might seem to be into you, but actually they're not or the other way round .. Yeah, it's really hard to determine unless we truly understand the other party .. But it seems impossible cause we all like to hide our feelings, shove them aside .. We all do these for reasons, each and different people have their own reasons .. We make our lives miserable by thinking whether others are thinking of us .. Don't have to deny, everyone does that, it's just that how often we do that only .. It's sometimes hard to avoid this, especially when it comes to love which is a little simple thing but we made it so complicated ..

It's not a bad thing if we are thinking of what others are thinking of us, but we couldn't do much if he or she were to think that specific way about us .. Take for example, if you were to like this guy/girl and kept thinking whether he/she feels the same way towards you .. Wouldn't it be a predicament to you, you'll be like thinking 24/7 and neglect things that you're supposed to do ..
Unless it's a mutual feeling, that would be good of cause .. Haha .. What I'm trying to say here is if that even if we damn like this girl/guy, if she doesn't want to couple with you even how good you treat him/her .. Everyone has their reasons and it's totally their choice, we wouldn't want to force people and end up hurting both parties .. But they wouldn't tell the reasons out as they were afraid to hurt us .. It all ends with huring one another .. Lol .. So think twice if you were to fantasize or kept thinking what the other party is thinking about you .. =_) ..

If they were to appreciate it, it's like a very good satisfaction .. Seriously, the feeling of being appreciated is can't be describable, either in form of words or action .. But on the other hand, if everything you did, was as though the wind blowing across your hair, the feelings hurt a lot .. Things wouldn't always happen as the way we wish, we could only adapt in situations and live with it ..

So was thinking whether will they create a show title She's just not that into you .. Really ought to know how girls reject guys they are not into .. Lol .. That's all I guess, some kind of random thoughts pop up from my semi-bursting head .. I guess I better take some rest, my head's going to blow really soon .. Ciaoz ..

No pain, No gain !!!

Remember that I said, I was refrain to play footsal .. I played it yesterday, cause my friends ask me to play as they said I've not been playing with them for quite awhile .. I can't turn them down so I just tagged along and played with them .. It was really fun playing with them, the pain just subsided when I was playing .. I don't know why, but it just happens like that ..

So after playing, the pain is back and it's worsen .. I was like shit !! Lol .. So I told my mum that I need to see my family acupuncturist in Ampang .. He's the best I could say, haha .. all the while any sprains or injuries I will just head over his clinic, get some treatment and is all done .. =_) .. Two thumbs up .. =_) ..

So was supposed to visit him this morning but my aunt came down from my hometown bringing all the equipments and all .. So nice of her .. Haha .. I was sounded nicely by her, she was kinda mad at me saying I was wasting all her effort all the while .. I was still laughing, but then apologize later on .. Lol .. So I was treated by her, the pain is unbearable, I almost screamed my lungs out but I held it back .. It has worsen according to my aunt .. She say if I continue playing, I might have side effects later when I'm aged .. I was scared so I promised myself will only play soccer when my Achilles tendon is fully healed .. I must learn to love myself before I learn to love others .. xÞ ..

Finally managed to upload the pictures taken to the computer, so here it is .. Take a look at how many needles are there .. Can you count ?? xÞ .. Like I said no pain, no gain ..

My back

My achilles tendon

Don't freak out .. Haha .. I guess that's all for now, I have to finish the remaining invoices, 2 more books left .. I will be out swimming later, so will be back at night .. Till then next post .. =_)

How To Stay Young .. =_) ..

Got an email that's interesting so I'm here to share with everyone .. =_) ..

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes height, weight and age. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down
3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, etc. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop'. And the devil's name is Alzheimer.
4. Enjoy the simple things
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp your breath.
6. The tears happen. Endure,grieve, and move on. The only person,who is our entire life,is ourselves.Be alive while you are alive
7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, etc. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it . If it is beyond what you can improve, get help .
   
9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the take country; to a foreign country but not where the guilt is
   
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity

And always remember : Life is not measured by the number of breaths that we take, but the moments that take away our breath .

Interesting isn't it ?? Haha .. Hope you all have fun reading and share it with others .. =_) ..

Going to college to check my results .. It seems like many of many college are kinda emo over their results .. It seems they got unexpected results .. Hmm I guess I just have to accept my result no matter what is it .. But basically, I will be very satisfied no matter what my results are, just hope that I don't need to face the music .. =/ .. So yeah, I roughly guess my average would be 70-80 .. Which means I will be failing to achieve my targetted average score .. Haha .. Guess I shall be heading to bed now .. Nights .. Bye Bye

Ouch .. =/

Went to the dentist on Monday, fix my bracers .. It's getting tighter .. =/ .. My lower teeth is in pain .. Barely can eat hard stuff now, and I need to wear this silicon rubber band to hold the upper teeth and the lower teeth together .. I think it's to prevent my jaws strethcing too wide .. So basically it's not really easy to eat for now, I rather eat less for now .. =/ .. Enduring the pain is not easy .. =_) .. I guess it's just a matter of time, when it doesn't hurt anymore ..

For the pass few days, I've been basically stoning and lazing around .. Haha .. It's really kinda boring during the holidays, nothing much to do besides chatting, dota and all .. xÞ .. I guess when there's holidays, we said it's boring and all but when it comes to college days we just hope there're are more holidays .. Isn't it this the human nature ?? Haha .. Hmm, it's just only the beginning of the holidays, I wonder what is it like for the rest of the holidays .. Currently I'm still looking for some jobs, but at this kind of time it seems harder to find jobs .. For the moment, I'm doing some fileing and typing for my mum for her income tax .. For like so many years, when it's close to the income tax period, I will be doing all these kind of things .. Just kinda get sick of it, this is one of the reasons why I hate accounts so bloody much and I wouldn't want to be an accountant !! Lifeless + boring job !!! .. =Þ ..

I initially planned to go Pulau Redang with my college mates .. It seems like they have not made up their mind whether to go or not to go .. I guess we still have the time to decide whether to go or not to go, cause we have loads of time .. =Þ .. But I feel that this trip is not going to be succesful .. Haha .. Just let it be I guess, is fate that brought us all together .. *winks .. I'm really happy and blessed to know every single of my college mates, different backgrounds, different characteristics .. Honestly two thumbs up .. =Þ .. Soon everyone will be going to different universities, just hope that we can still meet up and hang out together like we used to .. =_) ..

I really hope to go to Pulau Redang this time, last year we didn't manage to go .. So let's just hope everything goes well .. *fingers crossed .. =_) ..

I better start finish up the typing and stuff, dad's gona be back this Friday .. If nothing is done, I'm so gg-fied .. Lol .. xÞ .. I think I have procrastinating since Monday .. Lol .. What to do is human's nature .. xÞ .. Hmm, there are just things that I don't procrastinate, most of the things that I procrastinate is things that I really hate to do .. Haha .. Okie Okie, better get some rest, been in front of the com for hours already .. Till then .. =_)

10 Meaningful Phrases Self Translate =/

第一句

如果我们之间有1000步的距离

If the distance between us is 1000 steps away
　　
你只要跨出第1步

You just have to move for 1 step
　　
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步

I will walk the rest of the steps towards your direction
　　
第二句
　　
通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人

Most of the time, those who argue with you
　　
才是真正爱你的人

are the those who really love you
　　
第三句
　　
付出真心　才会得到真心

Treating others with sincerity, then you'll be treated the same way as well
　　
却也可能伤得彻底

but it might hurt others thoroughly
　　
保持距离　就能保护自己

Keep a distance in order to keep yourself safe
　　
却也注定永远寂寞

However, your destiny is to be lonely forever
　　
第四句
　　
有时候　不是对方不在乎你

At times, is not the other party that does not care about you,
　　
而是你把对方看得太重

cause actually you put very high hopes on the other party
　　
第五句
　　
朋友就是把你看透了　还能喜欢你的人

Friends that totally understand you, there are chances that they still like you
　　
第六句
　　
就算是believe　中间也藏了一个lie

The word believe consists of the word lie
　　
第七句
　　
真正的好朋友

A true best friend
　　
并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题

is not only about having unlimited conversations
　　
而是在一起　就算不说话

but it's about when there's no conversation
　　
也不会感到尴尬

you don't feel awkward
　　
第八句
　　
没有一百分的另一半
　
只有五十分的两个人

It's impossible to have a perfect partner, cause it takes two person to be a perfect couple
　　
第九句
　　
为你的难过而快乐的　是敌人

The person that is happy because you're sad is your enemy
　　
为你的快乐而快乐的　是朋友

The person that is happy because you're happy is your friend
　　
为你的难过而难过的

Those who are sad because you're sad
　　
就是那些　该放进心里的人

are the ones that must be remembered in our hearts
　　
第十句
　　
冷漠　有时候并不是无情

Treating someone cold doesn't mean that you're heartless
　　
只是一种避免被伤害的工具

It's only a tool to refrain you from being hurt ..


Tried my best to translate, roughly the meaning is there .. Lol .. Hope you all can understand .. For those who can read Chinese is better I guess .. =_)

Back .. =/

Wee .. I'm back home, I miss my bed and my pillow so much .. Not forgetting my computer .. Just can't live without it for now .. Hehe .. =Þ .. Had acupuncture session 2 days in a row, according to my aunty, she say it will be better and will help heal my Achilles tendon and back faster ..

Actually I took some pictures, showing my back and my leg, somehow I can't upload the pictures from my phone .. I was like wtfuckyouphone !!! .. Rofl .. xD .. Nvm, nvm .. If there's a next session I will try post it up again .. Hmm, basically felt better after every session, this time my aunty warn me dy, no more footsal for like 2 weeks or more .. Pfft .. >< .. I hate it wei, Arghhhhhhhhhh, how can I endure for 2 weeks or more .. T.T ..

So decided to continue swimming and do traction .. My grandfather advice me to do one exercise, which I don't know what is it call .. It seems that it help strengthen the legs, and will make our legs lighter .. This is proven cause my grandfather at the age of 80,(If I'm nt mistaken .. =Þ), wouldn't have leg problems like other old people .. Cause he say he do the exercise for like a 1000 times a day, since he was young .. I'm so convinced so decided to take up his advice .. =_) ..

So basically, I'm on some medication to improve my bloog circulation .. Cause it seems that I don't have good blood circulation, so just being obedient and want to keep my body healthy I'm on medication .. =_) .. Actually is really good to live in a family of doctors, either it's western or traditional(my grandfather is a sinsei and my aunt obviously acupunturist) .. So many people can take care of you when you're sick .. Hehe .. =Þ

Back on Saturday's outing .. Basically went back to SJI to meet up with my old school mates, the carnival was kinda boring actually, nothing much to do .. Most of the time just chat with them, haha .. It's still fun thou .. =_) ..

MU lost .. Great .. We had a conclusion and that's it .. No more next time .. You know who you are .. Enough said .. =_) ..